Hi all, hope you are having fun at this festive time, I just wanted to share with you my experience on Christmas Eve.
As you do, my hubby and I went to Morrisons on Christmas Eve for some
last minute food shopping, I had to go sit down and went in the cafe,
where I saw an elderly gentlemen who was very bent over, with a walking
stick struggling to get a cup, for his drink from the top of a pile that
was stacked. I was a little away, and as I approached him, felt
overwhelmed with sadness at how many people walked past him, didnt see
him or ignored him. I went up to him and asked him if he would like some
help, which he very gratefully accepted, as he was slow, and continued
to struggle in walking at such an odd angle of being stooped (though
nothing I could help him with), I made a joke of pushing in front of
him, and continued to chat as I was getting the drinks. We had a good
old chinwag, and I got my drinks and took them to my table.
I looked round at this gentleman and could see his face and saw him
struggling beyond comprehension again, he had paid, had a tray with a
drink on and a walking stick and was obviously in a dilemma as to how to
get to his chair, I went and offered him some further help, (pointedly
looking at the cashier whilst offering it - with my sternest face on!),
he seemed relieved for the help.
We got to his table, and as my hubby was still in the queue with the
shopping I sat down and chatted (he was waiting for his bacon sandwich),
now I believe in equality! Even when nagging! And when he was saying
how hard it is and how few people help you these days, I gave him a
Leigh nagging special, and pointed out that despite his obvious
disability, he needs to speak up for himself, and tell people what he
needs, as these days people are so frightened to help in case of
politically correctness, potentially patronizing behaviour etc., and I
said dont worry, I am like this with everyone.
When hubby came to the table, I left the poor man in peace, and went to
my table. When I looked back a while later he was gone, which I felt sad
I hadnt got to say goodbye to him, but remembered the twinkle in his
eye when I was nagging him, you see, nagging shows you care.
The bottom line of this story is........... Please dont look away, if
you think someone needs your help and it is safe to offer it, take a
chance, even if we get it wrong, at least we tried.
I am the same kind of person as Leigh ....a kind thought goes a long way, so please try to have one every day !!